it actually goes back a few years, when we could have won the lot - I wondered if football would ever be the same to me as we couldnt achieve more. Even though we didn't win all 4, I realised the game doesn't mean as much to me as it once did.
I am just falling out of love with the game - the time wasting has been the tipping point along with VAR. I continue to watch us and hope we win, but no longer get down beat when we play badly.
Right now we need to build confidence, winning (at least not losing) is the way to achieve this.
If we continue to not lose games players will feel better and confidence and more flamboyant football will return.