Kahnee 0 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 If anyone could point me towards the cheapest (I broke) and quickest (while we're still being civil to each other) that would be much appreciated. Oh, and happy new year everyone. Like what you've done with the place Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bailo 81 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 That's s*** Kahnee, sorry about that. I am no help to the original question. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hassony 97 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Sorry to hear that mate I used an online one for mine, we agreed everything between us and the process was simple and quick good info here http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobs 144 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 sorry to hear that, Kahnee Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RP 0 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Sorry to hear Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
philmatthews 4 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 s*** that, hopefully it all gets sorted out nice and quickly with the minimum damage. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bootser 13 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 s*** news mate. Not sure if process different in NI than to the mainland but my experience was to engage a solicitor who in turn engaged a brief. High Court job. In short there was no dispute over access to the kids and in turn I signed over the house and paid over the odds each month than what my solicitor said he could wangle, I guess I did so because I was the one 'at fault'.Child Support Agency not involved. Judge at High Court was very impressed. Think the process took around 6 months (?) and cost me around £1500 - about 12/13 years ago. If you feel you have both reached the point of no return then have it sorted. BTW just finished John Bishop's book (6/10) and he sang the praises of Relate. Not sure if you would try that route but he thought them worthwhile. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stevie H 111 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 sorry to hear that kahnee. same time please tell me this wasn't your first online port of call like? you've already sought expert help or vanished fast down a bottle? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Murphman 28 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 That's sh*t mate, what a shame,. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressederic 105 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 f***ing hell, Kahnee that's really s***. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kahnee 0 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Well I always like to try something new each year, and I've never been divorced before so... Stevie - I didn't get where I am today by simply following the wise words of YNWA.Oh, wait... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Swan Red 164 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Oops mate but it happens to the best of us. My approach was dead simple my ex got the house and car I got to walk away from it. It needn't be expensive if you aren't contesting anything, try to resolve as much as you can between the two of you and there's little left, then all you need to is apply for the decree and wait. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Earl Hafler 45 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Ah, balls, Kahnee - sorry to hear that. Happy New Year to you Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oakie bob 10 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Welcome to the club.................it's so much fun..............i left them to sort it out, that way didn't cost me anything...............we sold the house's, split what left over........I went to Disney World and had fun........don't get married again.................enjoy. And no I wont be getting married a 3rd time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gunga Din 4 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 (edited) Hit it with a hammer. or something. Seriously s*** mate, gutted for you. Me and th ex split last May and its a massive massive pain in the a***. Best advice i can give you is make sure you put yourself first, get out of the house or put her out ASAP, and get on with your life. We werent married though, so didnt have to bother with divorce and the like Edited January 13, 2015 by Gunga Din Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stanley Leisure 74 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Sorry about that, Kahnee. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rex Ham 9 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 What Swan said. Try and do it yourselves if you're still communicating. Bit painful filling the forms in for the decree but better than paying someone to do it for you. Make sure you go to town on the reason for divorce. Ours got bounced first time around. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Falconhoof 73 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Sorry Kahnee, can't be a nice time for you. Still, useful material for standup. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Owen1978 0 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 (edited) Went through this last Feb when I applied for a divorce, the actual divorce paper work is not too difficult.So saved myself some money... but its the splitting of the assets which is costing me the solicitors fees as she is being greedy. In terms of myself ... it was the lowest point of my life.... Hit the drink for a month (I'm a Muslim, shows how bad it was)Had a so called divorce month where I would get wasted 2/3 times a week Picked myself up finally and a year later, I am with a new partner and the world is right again... Edited January 13, 2015 by Owen1978 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pipnasty 104 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Bloody hell, Kahnee. Hope you are ok. PM me if you want some insipid, cliched and, quite possibly, inappropriate advice. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Swan Red 164 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 You know that's what he's asking for like. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
£440,000 3 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Crap news, Khanee. Hope you're as all right about it as possible. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ifanew 0 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 (edited) The ending of a relationship is never an easy thing even if it's the best way forward for those involved. I hope that you manage to remain civil to each other and sort everything out with the minnimum of hassle so that you can both move on. All the best and take care. Edited January 13, 2015 by ifanew Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibby 17 Report post Posted January 13, 2015 Sorry to hear about this Kahnee. If you are still wanting legal representation then I could speak to someone for you but they would be Birmingham based Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
New York Red 25 Report post Posted January 14, 2015 Awful sorry about that mate. Good luck. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
